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THE PROOF that female carouselers are not happy in marriage
1 year 11 months ago #187
by jagrchive
Women who don't sleep around before their wedding have happier marriages - but men can play the field without worry, study finds | Mail Online
I love it when science catches up to me OK, I won't brag because many of you had the same suspicion. I've said this so many times, most recently here:
mktow.com/index.php/component/kunena/jag...-they-marry-beta-bux
That carouselers never salvage their lives; that even if they marry, that is not a satisfactory end-game for them. They will be miserable.
Here are the key parts of the study:
Women who have several sexual partners before getting married have less happy marriages - but men do no harm by playing the field,a study has found.
According to new research by the National Marriage Project, more than half of married women who had only ever slept with their future husband felt highly satisfied in their marriage.
But that percentage dropped to 42 per cent once the woman had had pre-marital sex with at least two partners. It dropped to 22 per cent for those with ten or more partners.
But, for men, the number of partners a man they appeared to have no bearing on how satisfied they felt within a marriage.
It means our past experiences, especially when it comes to love, are linked to our future marital quality, they said.
'This doesn’t mean that sex before marriage will doom a marriage, but sex with many different partners may be risky if you’re looking for a high-quality marriage.'
There have been many movements throughout history that have slowly waned because they fought a losing war with science....or better said, they were proven to have no legitimate factual basis. Organized religion has had a slow decline, in part because of this. Now feminism is another movement which tells its adherents one thing "Men and Women are Equal!" but biology tells us something quite differently. The very foundation for feminism's advice (that men and women are the same) has proven to be quicksand....that when women copy male behavior, in this case "play the field", they end up getting played. A year ago, I wrote this:
A woman is not playing the field. She is being played. the emotional fallout from the predictable failure of her ridiculous mating strategy. That emotional fallout creates a broken woman- someone who is fearful, paranoid, ready to lash out at any perceived mistreatment/cheating, unable to truly love and feel, someone who has learned to hate sex and feel shame because of it (because they used sex in the wrong way, to predictably negative consequences).
There is no way back from there to a happy, mutual relationship.
Also see my comment here from 4 months ago in response to someone saying carouslers will always marry and "get away with it":
That's not "all she wrote". Women mistakenly think what's good for the Goose is good for the Gander. But women are biologically different than men. Whereas men were made for sex without attachment and decouple the two, women were not. Feminism is misguiding them into similar relationship behavior as men and there ARE major consequences to women after riding the Carousel- some are physical, but the much larger factor is psychological. I could look up a bunch of studies but I've seen hundreds of these women and it's very clear their psyches have taken a serious toll from mounds of casual sex. Afterwards, they are unable to love, they resent sex, suffer from 'alpha widow' syndrome, lose the ability to pair bond, develop enormous baggage from being played and discarded. You cannot meet these women and not notice it. This is in strong contrast to the women I know who are the same age and married early (~23/24) and have had a stable relationship. The thousand-cock stare, the increase in depression amongst 20-something and 30-something women, and the post-Carousel weight gain (often from depression) are very real symptoms of how they're handling their sex lives.
Nothing in this world is free- not even the Cock Carousel. One shouldn't be bitter about it- I agree- or try to change the women involved. But to insinuate that women can simply jump off the Carousel into a loving marriage without consequences -- is simply not what I've seen firsthand.
As I mentioned in the last post on this subject, "carouselers have no successful long-term strategy"; they are doomed to either being alone (which women hate) or cranky & miserable in marriage.
A man can be happy being independent, plating different chicks, or marrying a non-carouseler. Lots of options.
For a man, you need to know the cock count of your bride-to-be or GF. "THAT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS?", a twat squeals. Fuck off. If 78% of women with 10+ partners wont' be happy during marriage, Neither will You. It's fortunate that cock count is written all over a woman's personality- in her defensiveness, her shit-tests, in her trying to qualify you -- that you don't need to rely on her "honesty". What you can tell about this data, if a woman has a high cock count, she can only ever be a plate. (If a woman suddenly approaches you in her late 20s or 30s, and has lived on her own for some period of time, trying to pin you down, does not have several long-term LTRs, then she is almost assuredly a carouseler.)
So I hope this corrects a misperception in the Red Pill world where some say that women can always recover from their slutty 20s by baiting a fool into marriage. Even Roosh wrote about this- that women never get their comeuppance. While true that some carouselers marry (although becoming less common by the day), that doesn't mean it will be a happy marriage. And by the evidence, more than 3 of 4 will not be happy. And now you know why all those soccer moms are forever scowling
I love it when science catches up to me OK, I won't brag because many of you had the same suspicion. I've said this so many times, most recently here:
mktow.com/index.php/component/kunena/jag...-they-marry-beta-bux
That carouselers never salvage their lives; that even if they marry, that is not a satisfactory end-game for them. They will be miserable.
Here are the key parts of the study:
Women who have several sexual partners before getting married have less happy marriages - but men do no harm by playing the field,a study has found.
According to new research by the National Marriage Project, more than half of married women who had only ever slept with their future husband felt highly satisfied in their marriage.
But that percentage dropped to 42 per cent once the woman had had pre-marital sex with at least two partners. It dropped to 22 per cent for those with ten or more partners.
But, for men, the number of partners a man they appeared to have no bearing on how satisfied they felt within a marriage.
It means our past experiences, especially when it comes to love, are linked to our future marital quality, they said.
'This doesn’t mean that sex before marriage will doom a marriage, but sex with many different partners may be risky if you’re looking for a high-quality marriage.'
There have been many movements throughout history that have slowly waned because they fought a losing war with science....or better said, they were proven to have no legitimate factual basis. Organized religion has had a slow decline, in part because of this. Now feminism is another movement which tells its adherents one thing "Men and Women are Equal!" but biology tells us something quite differently. The very foundation for feminism's advice (that men and women are the same) has proven to be quicksand....that when women copy male behavior, in this case "play the field", they end up getting played. A year ago, I wrote this:
A woman is not playing the field. She is being played. the emotional fallout from the predictable failure of her ridiculous mating strategy. That emotional fallout creates a broken woman- someone who is fearful, paranoid, ready to lash out at any perceived mistreatment/cheating, unable to truly love and feel, someone who has learned to hate sex and feel shame because of it (because they used sex in the wrong way, to predictably negative consequences).
There is no way back from there to a happy, mutual relationship.
Also see my comment here from 4 months ago in response to someone saying carouslers will always marry and "get away with it":
That's not "all she wrote". Women mistakenly think what's good for the Goose is good for the Gander. But women are biologically different than men. Whereas men were made for sex without attachment and decouple the two, women were not. Feminism is misguiding them into similar relationship behavior as men and there ARE major consequences to women after riding the Carousel- some are physical, but the much larger factor is psychological. I could look up a bunch of studies but I've seen hundreds of these women and it's very clear their psyches have taken a serious toll from mounds of casual sex. Afterwards, they are unable to love, they resent sex, suffer from 'alpha widow' syndrome, lose the ability to pair bond, develop enormous baggage from being played and discarded. You cannot meet these women and not notice it. This is in strong contrast to the women I know who are the same age and married early (~23/24) and have had a stable relationship. The thousand-cock stare, the increase in depression amongst 20-something and 30-something women, and the post-Carousel weight gain (often from depression) are very real symptoms of how they're handling their sex lives.
Nothing in this world is free- not even the Cock Carousel. One shouldn't be bitter about it- I agree- or try to change the women involved. But to insinuate that women can simply jump off the Carousel into a loving marriage without consequences -- is simply not what I've seen firsthand.
As I mentioned in the last post on this subject, "carouselers have no successful long-term strategy"; they are doomed to either being alone (which women hate) or cranky & miserable in marriage.
A man can be happy being independent, plating different chicks, or marrying a non-carouseler. Lots of options.
For a man, you need to know the cock count of your bride-to-be or GF. "THAT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS?", a twat squeals. Fuck off. If 78% of women with 10+ partners wont' be happy during marriage, Neither will You. It's fortunate that cock count is written all over a woman's personality- in her defensiveness, her shit-tests, in her trying to qualify you -- that you don't need to rely on her "honesty". What you can tell about this data, if a woman has a high cock count, she can only ever be a plate. (If a woman suddenly approaches you in her late 20s or 30s, and has lived on her own for some period of time, trying to pin you down, does not have several long-term LTRs, then she is almost assuredly a carouseler.)
So I hope this corrects a misperception in the Red Pill world where some say that women can always recover from their slutty 20s by baiting a fool into marriage. Even Roosh wrote about this- that women never get their comeuppance. While true that some carouselers marry (although becoming less common by the day), that doesn't mean it will be a happy marriage. And by the evidence, more than 3 of 4 will not be happy. And now you know why all those soccer moms are forever scowling

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