The degree of a woman's relationship failure is directly proportional to her resentment of men.
Some background. Men experienced different selection pressure from evolution. We were forced to adapt in order to demonstrate competence, primarily in hunting and other techniques to ensure survival. Therefore, man doesn't fault others when things go wrong. He examines, he questions, he modifies his behavior and tries again. Women on the other hand were chosen to breed for reasons of reproduction, not survival. So what mattered were hips, breasts and the like. Women do not have strong drive to attain or to adapt. In fact, it is so extreme in most of them, they suffer from
hypoagency - the refusal to accept responsibility for their actions.
The important thing about hypoagency is that a woman never learns; it is always someone else's fault. (This proved evolutionarily advantageous when it was more effective for her to pass blame than try to alter an environment she was unsuited to change). Now, the point. When women adopt a failed mating strategy (ie: punch above their weight in their 20s to try to get laid by a higher SMV alpha), and inevitably get pumped and discarded, they experience failure.
Enter: hypoagency which realizes "It's NOT her fault", it's someone else's fault. And who is that someone else?? Men. All that anger and all those tears after Guy #22 laid her and then never called back is going to boomerang back at someone (per hypoagency), because she's not blaming herself. And here is the core: carousel riders, women who get to their 30s without landing a man have the
highest resentment against MEN in general because hypoagency has faulted them, naturally, for everything that has gone wrong to date.
So while great men often have a long list of failures behind them that they've learned from-
Abraham Lincoln being a prime example
- women are the opposite. Failed women will fail even harder because they don't adapt; if they don't have the right mindset initially, they never will. And the longer they flop around in the marketplace, the ANGRIER and more revenge they'll want to take out on the men they blame for all their failures. So this is why 30-something women make
awful relationship partners - and try to fully exploit their beta spouse- as revenge for all "they" (men) did to them in their 20s.
Never marry a carousel rider. Never marry a woman 30+. Their decade of failure has a scapegoat. You.
