Sexual sublimation has been talked about here on this board. Napoleon Hill referred to sexual sublimation as applying the awesome force of sex drive in the male towards productive activities. Instead of focusing this primal nuclear weapon at a target of modest and declining value (the western woman), one can take the same force and apply its energy to become a better person, enjoy life, develop skills, improve the neighborhood, build incredible things. As Hill said, "The desire for sexual expression is inborn and natural. The desire cannot, and should not be submerged or eliminated. But it should be given an outlet through forms of expression which enrich the body, mind, and spirit of man. If not given this form of outlet, through transmutation, it will seek outlets through purely physical channels."
But many including myself fumbled along trying to figure out how to use it correctly. Now I've found one powerful way I've used, and after two months I can say it's been massively successful.
In this particular case, I've wanted to train my voice. I work an office job and have meetings; my voice is an important tool on the job- especially if I have to convey authority or strike the right tone. I basically don't enjoy the training because it's a lot of breathing exercises and making repetitive sounds. When I get back from work, I sometimes just want to chill out. But it's a solid investment of an hour every other day. Unlike lifting weights, I get no natural high from endorphins. And the gains are incremental. After the initial few weeks when the novelty wore off, I needed something to keep me going.
So I'll describe what I do. I go through about 10 minutes of the vocal workout on my own. At this point, my body starts to resist and the Xbox looks tempting. I then play **** on my big-screen TV in the background (some ideal scenario; some notion of a "reward"). I typically turn off the sound. I make subtle connections between the what's happening there and my voice work (this is not a literal thing; I don't get into - "all girls are ****s so why would i want one!"- the point is your sex drive is primal and gets energy from these things which you can use elsewhere). I continue my work, looking at the tv occasionally. Suddenly I get a surge of energy. The voice work actually seems exciting and important. I power through it, occasionally looking back at the TV screen- and voila its like energy pumping into my system. Now I'm putting full energy into the vocal workout because on some bizarre level, deep inside my mind, it feels like its called to the task.
The thing is- it's never failed! My mind and body come alive even after a long day of work. The hard part is the subtle correlation you have to make. I can't quite explain it in simple terms; it's just something you have to let be associative, and you have to subtly tell your inner mind that if you do X, it has something to do with Y (fulfillment of sex drive). Has my inner mind every bellyached when it doesn't get the woman? Never. It doesn't hold grudges- it just moves onto all the unconscious things it attends to anyway like increasing the size of my nails and hair, etc.
A few rules: Don't jack off. Don't fixate on the sex lure; I look at it every few minutes. Don't dwell too long on the literal connection between the task and the sex stimulus (or you will begin to question it and break the association). I also don't play **** all the time or right at the beginning- for reasons hard to explain, but basically it takes away from the subtle and loose connection that I think needs to be there for the mind to pick up on it. The primitive mind is not logical; it's associative. You can game the inner mind a little bit by thinking about how fulfilling the task will lead to sex. I drop these hints every 5 minutes or so. It may sound silly but it works ("What women wouldn't submit to a powerful voice"). Again don't dwell on it, make the point, move on.
Something strange begins to happen. Now I sometimes look forward to doing vocal exercises. No reason. No thought comes to mind as to why. It just seems like an exciting, fun thing that gets my blood going. My inner mind is convinced it is purposeful. If the inner mind thinks its purposeful, it releases the right chemicals and fetches the right attitudes to make the task more palatable.
And my voice is getting results that I'm seeing already in the office. Thanks Napoleon Hill.
