Select posts by Jagrmeister on the now defunct GYOW = GoingYourOwnWay.com

Realization: Negging Women at the Societal Level produces Far Different Behavior

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1 year 11 months ago #170 by jagrchive
Let's begin with the idea and proof of negging- that is subtly putting a woman down and demonstrating higher value.

Science shows the neg works,

Walster (1965) investigated the influence of momentary self-esteem on receptivity to the romantic advances of a stranger. The researcher arranged for a group of female participants to interact with a male research assistant who flirted with them. The female participants were then given positive or negative personality test feedback. After their self-esteem was increased or decreased in that way, they were asked to rate their liking for the male research assistant.

The results of the study indicated that women who had their self-esteem temporarily lowered found the male research assistant significantly more attractive than the women with temporary high-self esteem. Walster (1965) theorized that this effect occurred for two reasons. First, individuals who feel “imperfect” themselves may demand less in a partner. Second, a person usually has an increased need for acceptance and affection when their self-esteem is low. Overall then, when an individual is made to feel “low”, they find potential romantic partners more attractive.

Next,  an article on Henry Makow , an Arab man talks about how in their society, men rule. Women know their role. In other words, at a societal level, they promote the importance of man and effectively "neg" women so they understand their lower (but complementary) role in society. What is the result?

Women [become] horny and demure; and feminine and understand the natural order of things

Now I want to point something out. Here and again we get the tired refrain that "Women were always like that, nothing's changed about women". This misses the larger point. A woman's behavior is what we are discussing. Within their behavior is a high degree of conformity to the culture. That culture can overwhelm her instincts and shape her behavior. So this notion that women were always damaged goods and are equally bad everywhere is simply an outgrowth of mentally lazy negativity. The reality is that with the right culture, women exhibit the behavior that makes for good sexual and relationship partners. And while all women have certain tendencies, there is a continuum of Good -> Bad behavior depending primarily on the local culture.

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Where I come from, men walk proud and rule the streets and testosterone runs in the air; and strong patriarchal foundations of family and the father as ruler of the household.

Western men seemed fragile somehow, unsure of themselves and their worth, the vast majority of them. Some put on fake personas, some overcompensated ... none quite had the quiet confidence that people from our culture possess.

If society reinforces to women their lower position, consistent with their lower capabilities per biology and neurology, it reminds them of the role they are to play -- that is consistent with their abilities.

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