Bachelor > Bachelorette

Description: In an age where we automatically assume the genders are equal & identical, we routinely make the mistake that "If it's good for the Goose, it's good for the Gander. In other words, if men do it, women should do it. If some lifestyle is valid for men, it's valid for women. What's totally missing from this thinking, is that men and women are different. The article explains how independence is natural and healthy for men given our disposition. In contrast, women adopting male mating behavior (ie: sex without attachment) has been disastrous to their mental health and well-being. In truth, there is no such thing as being a bachelorette - just a woman who's been f*cked, chucked, and never claimed. (Original Article on Red)
Written by jagrmeister
Being single as a male is pretty good. For beings born to be independent, living your life your way comes naturally. For me, it's going surfing on weekends, hitting the boxing gym, finding time to write, pursuing side businesses, hanging out with a few folks I'm close to. Everyone defines it their own way. Whether it's watching the game or learning something new, it is defined just as much as what it's not-- being dragged along to go shopping, listening to the tenth time about how this girl from work is trying to "destroy" her   The way you know male singledom is great is every married guy seems to acknowledge it. My married friends always confess during drinks that they wish they were single again and could see different girls, live their own life. I recommend single life to all my married male friends 

Female Singledom: Woman- getting Pumped and Dumped throughout her 20's --> "Broken Woman"
Now, let's look at female singledom. Women want different things out of life. Generally, they don't want to hop in a different guy's bed every month. Men have the wonderful God given trait of being able to disentangle sex and love. Women can't. Women are confused by feminism's dictates that they should be like men and the free expression of their sexuality somehow is empowering. How do I know they're confused? My female friends for one thing (I had more when I was blue pill). Here's what happens. Given their hypergamous instinct and feminist encouragement, women "never settle" and are increasingly ambitious about mate selection. As a result, women today try going for guys out of their league. The results are hilarious and predictable. I talk to my female friend about her going to a party, she's excited. She comes home deflated and talks to me the next day, saying how upset she is. Some guy banged her and then walked out of the room as if nothing happened. She kept trying to hunt him down during the party and understand what came next? LOL. Take another friend: she changed her facebook status to "It's complicated". She tweeted about how "It's so exciting when a guy calls you first thing in the morning". Two weeks later she's posting quotes about how you can't trust people   Women are idiots. This is the life of a 20-something woman- running into one brick wall after another. Women use sex to try to lure an alpha into a relationship, get pumped and dumped, but develop feelings. These feelings cause them to humilliate themselves texting the guy and trying to get his attention again. This by the way is obvious to everyone observing who can't help but be disgusted by this pathetic slut show. And this repeats over and over.

Women are not "playing the field". They are getting played
A woman is not playing the field. She is being played. She, out of desperation, tries to make something proud of her 'notch count', but it's actually a failure tally. It represents all the times she failed to lure an alpha into a relationship by spreading her legs (they sadly try to pass the 'notch count' as a positive thing to hide the humiliation). The consequence of this failure tally is that her mind has been fractured. Whereas a woman sees love and sex as largely connected, her inability to convert sex into love causes her giving up on love (and largely giving up on sex). Enter the 30s you have a broken woman who no longer truly can love and doesn't truly want sex -- what she needs now is stability and someone who can help her with her one final goal in life- to have kids. Now gentleman, think if you really want to end up with someone like this. To me, the issue isn't that she's been a receptacle for male ejaculate or a carrier of STDS, it's the trauma of living a life women weren't meant to lead - and the emotional fallout from the predictable failure of her ridiculous mating strategy. That emotional fallout creates a broken woman- someone who is fearful, paranoid, ready to lash out at any perceived mistreatment/cheating, unable to truly love and feel, someone who has learned to hate sex and feel shame because of it (because they used sex in the wrong way, to predictably negative consequences).

Check the Resume
This is why I say if you're MGTOW in your 30s or later, who is still open to a relationship, check the woman's resume. Her resume is her love life in her 20s. If her 20s were largely single, that's a red flag. While men can focus on their careers and play the field in a way that's healthy, a woman single in her 20s likely hamstered it 24-7. What is ideal is a woman who has been in a few long-term relationships; that's not saying she's gold, but relatively speaking, it's ideal. The amount of baggage that a 'broken woman' who spent her 20s single has is enormous. This is the woman who raids your phone for text messages, and then screams you can't blame her "because she's been hurt before". I am not your shrink, nor do I intend to be on the receiving end of the fallout of your psychological trauma. A woman in her 30s has a lot to prove in terms of showing that she has something to offer besides baggage.

Failed women, age 30+, who lived by feminism may want to turn on it
Singledom strengthens a man; he is in his natural element. Sex is not an issue with hook-ups, friends with benefits, escorts, etc. Female singledom takes a toll on women. They become worse people as a result. A woman loses her looks in her early 30s, while a man is often considered attractive into his 60s. Barring marriage, a woman can expect a pointless life of spinsterdom and cat feedings. For men, singledom is a beautiful way of life to the very end.

If you want to compare male and female singledom using public examples: consider George Clooney and Jennifer Aniston. One has lived an incredible life with acting and directing credentials, and a string of gorgeous women. Aniston has lived alone much of the time, and has ended up sleepwalking out of depression.

When these hollow, value-less 30-something+women wonder where life went wrong, they may want to turn on feminism rather than embrace it. It has led them astray, deprived them of love, and caused them to miss out on finding the best mate during their prime.

Meanwhile, I'm off to Cabo next month, and am loving my hapa escort with c-cups. LOL. 0 stress and a good job. Life is good.