Older man gives younger man advice: "Time is on your side not theirs."

I stumbled over  this question and answer  that is dated five years ago. The questioner asks:

Why do so many white women over 30 have such a spiteful, unfriendly look on their face in public all the time?

and even when I see them walking around the neighborhood. BTW, my family is white and my mom says that what happens when people expect too much from life (both themselves and others) and have an overbearing need to be accepted by the group and a delusional belief of a perfect existence.

Listen to this answer:

My friend calls it the "thousand cock stare"

I was thinking about the chicks that I used to let into my life before I turned 40. At the time they would say things that went over the top of my head. I hadn't really thought about it until now.

They would say things like "I thought I would be retired by now" meaning married, "I'm tired of waiting for my prince to show up" meaning she would settle for any man now, "I can't see myself doing this the rest of my life" meaning work. The way they said it was note worthy. They had a sense of resignation. Like they realized the game was over and this was it for them. Life was going to be a grind from here on out. Nothing to look forward to. Like they hit a wall.

Now none of that clicked with me because my life was just getting started. Retirement is the last thing on my mind, I'm not some fag looking for a prince and I can see myself working the rest of my life. It's just how men are. We accept the fact that we will work until we drop dead. Actually we don't have a problem with that because our work is who we are.

Not so with chicks. They are not defined by what they do as much as how they look and whether they are married or not, with or without children. When they are young and getting attention they see work as a means to an end. A way to kill time until prince charming comes to the rescue. So they buy into the feminist lie of independence and empowerment squandering their youth on worthless college degrees, careers and endless sex partners.

They start to panic in their 30s as the attention fades, the nice guys have turned into jerks banging away at the younger empowered/independent chicks that have just come out on the market. When they hit 40 it all comes crashing down on them. They finally realized no one is coming to rescue them. They are going to work until they drop dead just like a man does. This is not what feminism had promised them.

Don't try telling any of this to a young feminist. They will throw everything at you and the kitchen sink. "You hate women" "You want to keep women barefoot and pregnant" "You can't handle women that don't need you" so on. I'm ok with all that. I have seen what time does to them. The joke is on them.

My point is to give you younger men a heads up out there. Life gets better for you as you get older while a chicks life gets worse. Unless you are a jerk and a player you will be getting ignored by these chicks now but later on you will be doing everything in your power to scrape them off of you to make room for the younger ones. Most of you have not learned how to be a jerk or a player and you really don't want to waste your time on it. Jerks and players only pretend to be something they are not. They all deserve each other. You have better things to do.

You want to focus on your goals and your work. As you get better at your work they will come after you. Time is on your side not theirs. You will be in the drivers seat. You will be the one doing the picking and choosing. Believe me you will be doing a lot of dumping. Especially when she starts blabbering about how all the guys in her life were jerks. You don't want that STD infected slut in your life.

The only thing keeping you from a happy successful life is getting involved in a relationship to early. I see it all around me. The married guys can't keep up. They have to check in with mommy wife for permission to do anything. The opportunities pass them by in my favor because the wife has them tied down too often.

In fact I have heard it from them that their wife hates me. The chicks don't even know me and they hate me. All because I try to clue in those dumb asses which makes it harder for the wife to manipulate them. So another layer of rules gets thrown on top of them. No going on trips with me allowed. You know what happens? Their dumb asses get left at home while I move up, again.

You can learn from other men's mistakes. You do not have to experience them for yourself. I know most of you don't believe that. You will get married, shack up or oops accidentally get your girlfriend pregnant before you believe what I am telling you. Then you will end up on one of these so called men's rights forums or boards crying about how unfair the system is. As if you had no part to play in the signing away of said rights you will declare that men should form a movement to get these unfair laws changed. You will even send them money which they will gladly relieve you of while nothing changes. You will stand on top of buildings and bridges in super hero costumes while nothing changes. You may even go on equal parenting bike treks while nothing changes. You will do everything in the world other than acknowledge that you have become a host for an army of parasites by your own choosing. Did not matter that you were warned. Did not matter that you had your shot at freedom.


There is this wide-spread belief that men and women share equivalent lives. When a woman turns 30, it is all downhill. Therefore, if a man is single at age 30, he is in big trouble, right? Wrong. For man, the life is beginning. For woman, the life is winding down. Aristotle said, "The appropriate age for marriage is around eighteen for girls and thirty-seven for men."

To you older guys, any stories that you can relate that what the above man said is true? Does your life increasingly improve in quality? Do women's lives decrease in quality?

Going MGTOW is very, very difficult for a young man (I did it, and it was hell). Now, at 33, I am beginning to see the ripening fruits. I was able to go back to school again and change careers. I intend to go into the oil industry and then go international. I can only do this because I am not in a relationship and have kids. All my peers are stuck in relationships, and it ties an anchor to them. They are aging much faster than I. Already, they are attacking me. Questioning me as to why I am not bringing home a girl. The women are turning 30, and they do not like it. At school, I am attracting 20 year old girls let alone extremely strong interest from 30ish year old teachers.

For younger men who are distracted by women, these young girls always turn into old girls. Women are the opposite of fun as they get older. Time lost chasing them when you're younger also comes to bite you as you get older. MGTOW is the high quality life.